Silicone sex toys are soft, body-safe, and long-lasting — but only if you take care of them properly. One of the key factors that impacts your toy’s lifespan and safety is the lubricant you use. So — which lubricants are safe to use with silicone toys, and which ones should you throw out of your bedroom? 👇
Safest choice: water-based lubricant
If you're using a silicone toy, a water-based lubricant is your safest and most versatile option. Why?
- It's compatible with all materials, including silicone.
- It won’t degrade the surface of your toy.
- It’s easy to wash off with just water.
- Available in a variety of options — warming, flavored, scented, and more.
Drawbacks:
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It tends to dry out faster, so you might need to reapply during longer sessions.
A great option is MYLOME water-based lubricant or MYLOME flavored lubricants, known for their natural feel and pleasant scent.
Not safe: silicone-based lubricant
Silicone lube with a silicone toy? That’s like pouring acetone on plastic. What happens:
- Silicone lubricant can chemically react with the toy material.
- It may break down the surface, making it sticky, porous, or cracked.
- The toy becomes not only unpleasant to use but also unsafe, as bacteria can settle into the damaged surface.
Are there exceptions? Yes — some high-end silicone lubricants are labeled as safe for toys, but always:
- Check the manufacturer’s instructions, or
- Test on a small hidden area before using it.
Caution: hybrid lubricants (water + silicone)
These lubes mix a water base with a touch of silicone, offering a silkier texture and longer glide. Are they safe?
Some are, some aren't. It depends on:
- The amount of silicone in the formula
- The quality of the toy’s silicone
What to do:
- Always read the label — many hybrid lubes are marked “safe for toys”
- If unsure, test on a small, inconspicuous part of your toy.
Oil-based products: coconut oil, vaseline, body butters & more
Natural doesn’t always mean safe. Many people use coconut oil, Vaseline, body lotions, or even baby oil as makeshift lubricants. Although convenient, these products are not suitable for sex toys — especially silicone ones.
Risks:
- Can damage the toy’s surface
- Hard to clean off properly
- Trap bacteria
- Destroy latex condoms
How to test lubricant compatibility with your toy
- Apply a small amount of lubricant to an inconspicuous area of the toy.
- Wait a few hours.
- If the surface becomes sticky, soft, discolored, or changes texture, the lube is not safe to use.
Always choose a high-quality lubricant that clearly says “safe for silicone toys” or “toy-compatible” on the label.
And don’t cut corners when it comes to your body and your pleasure.
Let your fun last — not your regret.
💧 Water-based lubricant will be your most reliable partner when it comes to silicone sex toys.
Looking for a safe lube?
Check out our top recommendations [HERE].